View Larger So I recently got Grindr, the infamous app for gays to scope out each other and talk. Before, I was reluctant to download it since I have a bf and have no need for hookups. Now it’s more for amusement, flirting and chatting with random guys. I get complimented and I compliment. Last night, I even introduced myself to a person I recognized from the app. As long as I say things my bf can read in equal amusement, I see no harm in using it.